Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Sex-positive Virtual Assistant?
A Sex-positive Virtual Assistant (VA) is a sex-positive professional who provides services to individuals or businesses working within the sex-positive community or industries related to sexuality, relationships, and wellness. These industries can include sex education, sexual health, sex therapy, sextech, adult entertainment, or kink communities. The term "sex-positive" indicates an open, non-judgmental, and affirming attitude towards human sexuality, embracing consensual and healthy expressions of sexual identity, orientation, and behaviour.
Can I just hire a regular assistant, do they have to be sex-positive?
While you can hire a regular assistant for your sexual wellness business, having a sex-positive assistant offers several advantages that can enhance your operations:
A sex-positive assistant, like myself and my sex-positive associates, are more likely to engage comfortably with topics related to sexual wellness.
We have industry knowledge and familiarity with terminology and trends in sexual wellness can lead to smoother communication and efficiency.
We approach tasks related to sexuality without embarrassment, maintaining professionalism and ethical standards.
As the agency owner do you still work with clients?
Yes! I (Amari) am still heavily involved with client-facing work. Whether or not I end up working with a client or one of my associates does depends on a few factors; availability, time commitment and what the task at hand is. For example, if am fully booked you would work with one of my associates or if you needed video editing (which I hate doing) or copywriting you would work with one of my associates who are copywriters or video editors. This is something we can discuss on our call, at the end of the day I am here to pair you with your perfect person.
How did you choose your sex-positive associates?
My associates represent me and my business therefore the criteria they have to meet is EXTREMELY high. All my associates are required to be registered as self-employed and be registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO). They must have the appropriate business insurance in place and they sign a contract adhering to high ethical, moral and legal standards of the business. I require 2 references from their previous employers/clients as well as evidence of any previous work they have completed. They must have experience working in the sexual wellness or women's rights space and experience in the services they offer.
But it’s not all about logistics right? Do they have a sex-positive mindset? ALL of my associates are; sex-positive, pro-choice and pro-abortion, kink and BDSM friendly, pro-sex work, pro LGBTQIA+ rights, anti-racist and anti-sexist. I would not bring anyone onto my team who did upheld these course values of mine and the business.
What services do you and your associates offer?
Admin, social media management, personal assistance, copywriting, content creation, video editing, research, podcast, events and projects assistance and community management. See a full list of our services here.
What services do you not offer?
Between me and my associates, we have covered a lot of services! If you are unsure as to whether we offer the services you need, please email me at info@adminbyamari.com
See a full list of the services we offer here.
Who do you offer your services to?
Any and all sexual wellness and women health professionals, from charities to sex workers. See a full list of who we offer our services to here.
What are your qualifications?
BA (Hons) in Sociology (Specialised in topics such as gender violence, sexuality, pornography, sex work, sexual violence, domestic violence, sexual health, feminism, and sexism.)
Level 4 Teaching Relationship and Sex Education Qualification
Level 7 PGCE in Primary Teaching and Learning
Level 3 Safeguarding Lead Qualification
Level 3 GDPR & Data Protection Qualification
Training to become a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach
Sextech Entrepreneurship Program Graduate
The Psychology of Fetish & Kink Introduction - 7 Week Course
As well as, 8 years working, researching and volunteering in the sexual wellness and women's rights sector and 8 years working in childcare and education, with 5 years of experience in social media management and administrative roles. Check out my LinkedIn for my full work history.
This website is called Sex Coaching by Amari, how does admin and social media fit into this?
Alongside my sex coaching practice, me and my associates also offer specialised administrative support and social media management tailored to professionals in the sexual wellness and women’s rights industries.
What country are you based in?
London, United Kingdom.
I do not live in the UK, can I use your services?
YES!! As remote workers, we have the privilege of collaborating with people from all over the globe. Whether you’re in Europe, the Americas, or Oceania, I’ve worked across a wide range of time zones. Here are some of the countries of clients we have worked with.
What about the time difference?
You might wonder about the challenge of different time zones, but with flexibility and understanding, it’s never an issue. If you’re willing to start your day a little earlier or stay up a little later, we will happily do the same. This way, we can seamlessly align our schedules and work together efficiently. I have worked with clients in New Zealand which is an 11-hour time difference!
How do you take payments?
For clients not based in the UK, we take payments via GoCardless.
For those in the UK, it is via bank transfer.
How do you deal with GDPR & data protection?
Me and my associates are fully committed to maintaining the highest standards of data protection and privacy. They are registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) and have the appropriate business insurance in place.
I am registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) and hold a Level 3 qualification in GDPR, ensuring I adhere to all data protection regulations.
Our contract includes a non-disclosure clause to safeguard sensitive information. Additionally, I have business insurance in place, and both my phone and laptop are fully insured. All data is securely stored on a password-protected laptop, ensuring confidentiality and compliance with legal standards at all times.
Can I see some of your social media work?
Of course, send me an email at info@adminbyamari.com and I will send you my social media portfolio (still working out how to embed my portfolio to my website!)
If you work with one of my associates I will be able to provide you with social media examples from them.
I am part of the LGBTQIA+, Kink, BDSM, Sex Worker and Poly community, can we work together?
Absolutely, we can work together! We embrace and celebrate diversity within the LGBTQIA+, kink, BDSM, sex worker, and poly communities. Our goal is to create an inclusive and supportive space for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity.
How much does it cost to work with you and your team?
See our rates here, for rates FAQs please scroll to the bottom of the page.
I can’t afford to work with you all right now, can I have a discount?
No. we don’t offer discounts as our pricing reflects the value, quality, and experience we bring to each project. In order to provide the best results, we invest significant time and effort, which allows us to deliver work that meets a high standard. If timing is a challenge right now, I’d be happy to discuss future collaboration when it’s more feasible for you, so do not hesitate to book a call with me (Amari) here.
You can also check out my guides for sexual wellness professionals here.
I want your sex coaching and sex education services?
I qualify as a Certified Sex Coach in May 2025, so unfortunately you will need to wait until then! In the meantime, you can check out all of my sexual wellness guides here and follow me on socials to learn about all things sex.
I want to hire you for a speaking event!
Yesss! Please send me an email at info@adminbyamari.com with all the information and let’s see how we can work together!
I want to join your team of sex-positive virtual assistants!
Yay! Thank you for showing an interest, you can fill out an application form here.